Tooth # 5

It never stops being exciting. At 8:15 on a Sunday night, I’m glad I bought enough dollar coins to cover a mouthful of fairy visits.

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More often than not

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With children 6 1/2, almost six, and two, there is much jockeying for the biggest piece, the best toy, mommy’s undivided attention, the first turn.

More often than not, though, they work it out and pitch in together. There are some materials that are guaranteed to enable teamwork and merriment in our house: rocks, water, sand, mulch, snow, corks*.

A Barbie party became a swimming hole, which turned into a truck wash. With three kids we have three giant dump trucks (duh). An hour later, I’ve got dinner ready, I’ve blogged (!?!), and they’ve got extra sibling goodwill stored up. And I’ve got photographic evidence of them having a fun, happy, childhood for proof when they hit puberty and start denying it.

Life has been a lot too busy these last few, um, months? Years? But it is rich, for sure.

* (We’ve been saving our wine corks for years – a super toy for diggers to scoop and move around, to use in the tub; an extra bonus it’s that they don’t hurt like Legos or glass gems when you inadvertently step on them in the dark.)

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Waiting for Godot

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Or the school bus. Whatever.

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This moment, indeed

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Bigs are in bed listening to the story “The Dragonling” on iPod, Grif pumped full of antibiotics and ibuprofen to ease his strep. Grandma noticed that my wife’s car wasn’t in the driveway at 7pm and came over to spell me; she’s bathing the wicked big toddlah.

I’m sitting on the deck sipping a beer, listening to Pandora and playing gin rummy on my phone, and watching proudly as the new pooch joins our two mature dogs on the twilight romp over our 8+ acres of invisibly-fenced property as the sun sets.

There’s mopping to do, laundry to fold (always) and taxes to do still (my bad).

This moment is full of joy and calm and gratitude. There have been fewer of these moments of late with a crazy two year old busting his siblings’ chops moment by moment. It’s one reason for the scant blogging.

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This moment, indeed

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Bigs are in bed listening to the story “The Dragonling” on iPod, Grif pumped full of antibiotics and ibuprofen to ease his strep. Grandma noticed that my wife’s car wasn’t in the driveway at 7pm and came over to spell me; she’s bathing the wicked big toddlah.

I’m sitting on the deck sipping a beer, listening to Pandora and playing gin rummy on my phone, and watching proudly as the new pooch joins our two mature dogs on the twilight romp over our 8+ acres of invisibly-fenced property as the sun sets.

There’s mopping to do, laundry to fold (always) and taxes to do still (my bad).

This moment is full of joy and calm and gratitude. There have been fewer of these moments of late with a crazy two year old busting his siblings’ chops moment by moment. It’s one reason for the scant blogging.

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Shadows

Lord help me, my youngest son’s life is going to be forgotten in a swirl of sleeplessness, multitasking and memory loss. He deserves to have a record of his life too!

He is, as of today, afraid of “shadows”. And darkness. And being away from me. My previously brave son, happy-go-lucky, social, is now experimenting with fear. Last night this meant being awake from 2 – 5am or so. Tonight we are all in bed by 9, so I stand a fighting chance of not sending them all to the cornfield in my wife’s absence. Business trips always come at the worst times. Or else the shit hits the fan because she’s out of town. Doesn’t really matter, I’m still holding down the fort with a 34 lb barnacle glommed onto my ribcage.

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Sleeping

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I don’t want to forget that his hair is stuck in curls today thanks to a liberal application of condensed milk. Sweet in so many ways. My boy.

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Hat

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My great aunt Margaret knit this variegated blue and purple hat when she lived in a studio apartment in Miami Beach. We visited her when I was seven. She was OLD, and smelled odd, and it was awful, interminable, and so booooring. In retrospect, I can see what a joyful light we three great-grandkids brought to her reduced existence, accepting her stale cookies and iced tea hospitality and her lovingly hand knitted gifts. I am clearly getting old, but wow, wisdom is a harsh mistress. I was so dismissive. My brother Jason wore this hat for years, and after he died I packed it away. When Griffin, who has a skull that takes after his mom’s family, fit in it I brought it out and its been in rotation ever since. Truman now calls out his Jason hat, and he works the pom poms like a geisha, with a come-hither flick and a wink. History lives on.

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Operation Good Behavior, day 1

In an attempt to help the five and a half year old have better impulse control at school while sitting next to his other control-impaired buddies and doing fine motor work, I decided he needs to arrive physically exhausted.

It’s hard for me to tire him out in the morning, since I can’t leave the house if his brother is still sleeping, and I’m usually feeding animals, making lunches that I could have made the night before, and dressing myself so I’m not that crazy lady in her house coat and wild hair waving to her kids as they get on the bus while people on their way to a paying job judge me from their cars. So I had an idea.

I do a B.A.S.E. camp in the afternoons as needed, a.k.a. “burning after school energy”. We need to institute it as a morning exercise, too. Duh. I suspect a morning person would have figured this out already, but I have been too busy clutching my mug of coffee to consider it an option. My wife has an hour commute to work and hasn’t any extra time on either end of her day, so I enlisted the help of my dad, an ever-willing ally in the effort to help wherever needed. Perhaps if the warm weather ever returns we can go for family bike rides at 7am (resigned shudder), but it is 12 degrees out today. Dad popped over at 7:45 and took the Bigs out to the figure 8 we keep mowed in the 8-acre meadow and started to teach the kids about sprinting. I sat in peace on the icy front porch and when the bus driver slowed in front of our house I waved him on. After an extra 30 minutes of gross-motor exertion dad drove them to school, which is a treat in its own right. I stayed home, tidied the kitchen, fed the baby little boy, and had time to blog it all.

We’ll see if it helps keep minds right and calm the sillies that have been causing Griffin’s teacher to send home sheets like this:

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Fingers crossed.

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Peewee in training

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Truman is keen to do all the things his siblings do. Having just turned two, he is ready to learn to skate. Margie had him out on the ice a few times this past season, and he really liked it. Some Canadian friends suggested we let him wear his skates around on carpet to strengthen his hockey muscles, and he loves to play living room hockey after the Bigs have been put to bed. I’m thinking that I should start collecting ski gear now for next year. I like hockey, but I love skiing.

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